When does rivalry appear in the life of a child?
introduction
all parents have different ways to teach good values to their child. all parents give their best to teach their child. Some parents think that the children they will be strict with will survive in the discipline. But this is not the case. Parents should also keep in mind the likes and dislikes of their children. Children should not be scolded for making mistakes. We must first look at the situation to see what is wrong and what is right Before scolding. Children should be treated less harshly and more friendly. This will good for parent and child bonding.
now today we will talk about When does rivalry appears in the life of a child. and I will tell you some tips and tell you about some mistakes which are continuously done by parents.
in siblings
If we talk about the enmity of two siblings then life goes well when you have one child but the difficulty comes after having another child. The first child becomes jealous of the second child because we value the second child more and he has to now share the things and love with a second child. And we don't treat both children the same. Once you think that if you have to share your salary and post with your new colleague. the same experienced feel by the first child.
in one child
But if you have one child, I think the main reason for jealous is a comparison of him with another child. You compare your child to another child. Parents compare children to many other things like numbers, games, and behavior. Doing so can make the child feel bad and anger the other child.
Due to which the child can violently behave like other children. Don't compare your child with another child. It will change your child's behavior and if you repeatedly scold your child for the slightest mistake, it will make your child jealous of you. Once you think that if your boss compares your partner to you then yes you feel bad and also get angry. And if your boss scolds you over and over again, you get angry. That's what happens to children. Everyone has different qualities. God did not make everyone the same. Every human being is🤗 special.
I told you some tips and some mistakes. which parents are doing. and rival came in your child life and it also changes the behavior of your child.
some tips and some mistakes.
(1) scolding child too often-
Some parents reprimand their child over and over again even after making a small mistake but reprimand them a lot but should not do it. They do not know how bad the child will feel. Parents scold a child for failing a test. They should not scold the child. they should tell the child if he is weak in study .so it should be improved. Then the child will share everything with you.
(2) missed out on Important moments-
(3) Not spending enough time-
(4) not taking child's opinion-
(5) No communication with the child-
(6) comparing-
As I have told you children should not be compared because they all have different qualities. The only difference is the way you look. If your child is not interested in the study then he may be good at sports or he may be interested in a particular subject so do not compare children.
(7) following someone else advice-
(8) equality-
Conclusion-
in this post i told you When does rivalry appear in the life of a child. and I tell you about some mistakes which are done by the parent. and I also told tips. and according to me, the rivalry comes in child life by parents mistake.
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